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Setting Ground Rules

This is the MOST IMPORTANT step to take BEFORE attending any club, party or meeting with other couples or singles. Both of you must discuss and set ground rules that both of you MUST agree on before you attend your first club or party, so that there will be no misunderstandings during or after your first night out. You must discuss your limits of play and any specific things that would upset yourself or your partner. If you have discussed intercourse, whether you will use condoms or not.
When you make ground rules between you, ensure you don't break them! Many arguments are started by one partner bending or breaking the rules that were set by both partners. You will have many other opportunities to change or amend your rules as both of you become more comfortable in the lifestyle. The key to a very successful adventure into the swinging lifestyle is good communication between you and your partner.

When you meet or get together with a new couple for the first time, it is proper and appropriate to let the new couple know your level of play or things that would upset either one of you if they were to do them. The more you communicate with new couples, the more comfortable all of you will be with each other.

Sexual Intercourse

This is the MOST IMPORTANT rule to talk about before attending any club. If you don't discuss this topic and one of you has intercourse at a club or party, you can imagine the problems you have just created for each other. We have seen this happen on a few occasions and never with favorable results. Many individuals are not ready to see their partner have intercourse with another person. Others are so excited about the opportunity to see their partner take on several new partners. Only the two of you know the comfort levels and limits you want your partner to go to.

Many couples will decide to play in the lifestyle as Soft Swingers (all the sexual play, excluding intercourse). Swinging is not recommended for weak marriages or for couples that don't communicate well with each other.

Couples who are in a strong marriage and are both very sexually active with each other will normally enjoy seeing their partner have intercourse with new partners and enjoy the same level of play themselves. Most couples will tell you that their sexual experiences at home are heightened significantly after attending lifestyle clubs or parties.

Setting The Rules by Discussing Fantasies

This process works best by discussing each and every possible sexual situation. Such as, will you let me kiss another man or woman? Can I play or suck on someone's breasts? Would you like to see me dress up like a prostitute? Can I play dominate and tell others to make love to me? Would you like to see me take on two men or women at the same time? Can I try a bi experience?

You can also express the desire to your partner. I am going to let all the men play with me! I am going to let every hard cock feel my wet mouth and sticky pussy! I am going to pump my hard cock into a different pussy while you watch! I want you to sit on my face while another lady sucks on my hard cock. I want two cocks in my pussy or mouth at the same time!

By discussing all the possibilities, it gives both of you the opportunity to say, wait a minute, I want that special treat saved only for me, or I'm not ready to go that far. The more situations you discuss, the better mentally prepared both of you will be when these fantasies turn into reality for the first time.

Some couples are into taking their own movies of each other. Talk about all the typical things you do sexually at home with each other and if you are both willing to have these things done by new partners. Do you want to play together so you can see your partner or do you want to play in separate rooms. It is recommended that you play in the same room with new playmates to see your partners reaction with a new playmate. The new experiences you share together will be a great turn on when recalling them at home.

Breaking The Ground Rules

On a final note. If you have both taken the time to set ground rules before you play, don't break them. By breaking them, you will be jumping out of the fry pan into the fire!!!!


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